The Marriage Covenant
July 12, 2020 SeriesGod of Promise
Genesis 1:27–28 (NIV) 27 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. 28 God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.
Matthew 19:4–6 (NIV) 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
*Genesis 2:18-25
Marriage= One Man, One Woman, For One lifetime.
Marriage Has a Mandate.
Fulfillment comes from fulfilling God’s purposes together.
EVEN in Marriage, the goal is to seek first the kingdom. (Mt 6:33)
Our culture has set marriages up for failure:
You have to be committed when it's bad to experience when it’s good.
Destructive marriage mindsets:
1. Comparison
2. Competition
3. Manipulation
4. Separation(Independence)
“It takes a village to raise a child and it takes a community to have a healthy marriage”
5. Deception
When you got married you gave up your right to privacy
6. Tension (Unresolved conflict)
Marriage isn’t about perfection but redemption.
Remember:
1 Corinthians 13:4–7 (NLT) 4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
1. Tenderness> Strength
“Vulnerable couples are more healthy than strong individuals.”
2. Devotion> Emotion
Strong marriages are not built on emotion, they are built on devotion.
Devotion to Jesus: The most important relationship in marriage is with the Lord.
3. Partnership> Individual rolls
The best gift you can give your kids is showing them what it looks like to have a healthy relationship with your spouse.
4. Future> The Past
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